Despite the fact that yesterday brought with it one of the rare afternoons and evenings of lovely weather, I spent it watching a dvd series! It was a prearranged viewing party with the women who are planning our fall retreat. We are hoping the dvd “A Sacred Balance”, starring David Suzuki, will give lots of food for thought for our retreat with the theme of eco-spirituality.
In the watching, I learned a new phrase: “pathological individualism”. While Suzuki explores the need for community and the longing for connection he speaks of “pathological individualism”. I had never heard of it before but I immediately understood the term. This morning when I googled I saw that there are lots of posts and blogs about the idea so it has been around for a while.
Having been part of a church community all my life I have been spoiled with the experience of community. Having been a person of faith all my life I have been schooled in the notion of community, outreach and support. So the concept that the seeking of individualism is paramount is not personally experienced but it is also not new. A few years ago our church Book Club read, The Ego Boom by Steve Maich and Lianne George. The subtitle ‘Why the World Really Does Revolve Around You’ gives a hint at the content. The authors were inspired to write the book (ten years ago) when they read the statistic that more people live alone than ever before. Historically people lived with family, partners or friends. Not now.
Well, I live alone … and I don’t mind it! But I also value time with others and I think that the coming together to support others is vital to personal well being and the well being of the planet. I don’t think it is a question of being and introvert or an extrovert or personal likes or dislikes. I think it is about personal connection that brings a sense of healing and well being.
As has been profiled on the news of late, Bracebridge has experienced a great deal of flooding this spring. When the topic comes up those effected often don’t focus on the damage or the labour involved in the clean up, most want to talk about the tremendous help that neigbours, friends and strangers gave to them in their time of need. The outpouring of support is what impressed so many.
People need people!
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